My controls look the same (save the heated mirrors) however not only does my lock button icon not light up but the mirror one doesn't either. Likewise mine don't turn on until I switch on the headlights. Perhaps that is something they add to the EX?? I do wish they would have just lit all the icons.... I guess Honda has to give people a reason to upgrade to an Acura.Mine is an '06 EX-L but it should be similar. The door lock switch is lit along with the mirror adjustment knob, however, the window lock out switch nor the heated mirror switch are not lit.
The lights are on as soon as your start the car and not linked to headlights.